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Receiving GuestsIt is an enchanting moment when we hear the doorbell ring. The guests have arrived! We have so wanted everything to be just right for them: the house in order, the table sparkling, the food lavish. When we perform the mitzvah of kabbalat orchim, receiving guests, the pleasure is all ours.
MeditationGod, help me carry on the tradition of Abraham and Sara, who ran to bring in guests, who knew how to provide for each one in the most fitting way, and who escorted them on their way out, exemplifying overflowing kindness.
RitualWhen your guests arrive:Greet your guest in the name of God: "God bless you!" "God be with you!" "Thank God youre here!" Brukhim habaim brukhim ha nimtzaim. Hosts: Blessed are you who have come! Guests: Blessed are you who are here! BlessingYehi ratzon mil-fanecha, Hashem Elohei vElohei avotei, she-tashrei shchinat-cha beineinu. May it be Your will for Your presence to reside among us.
RitualWhen your guests depart: In Jewish tradition, we treat the departure of a guest as graciously as we treat their arrival, escorting them to their car or walking along with them until they are safely on their way.
BlessingYehi ratzon... May it be your will to bring our guests home safely, and in peace.
Teaching"A person should greet his associate with Gods name. As it says, "And behold Boaz came from Bethlehem and he said to the reapers, The Lord be with you! And they answered, The Lord bless you!" (TJ Brachot 9:5)
Bruchim Haba-im bshem Hashem. Blessed are those who come in the name of God.
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